MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (9) Powerful Words That Build Or Destroy Peace

First of all be a Human being..We are forgetting even this in Torah world how to behave. The Gemara says that anyone becomes angry is like 100% like an idol worshiper. HaShem Runs the world with or without you and when we realize that HaShem runs the world there is no need to be angry. and when something bad happens we need to look it like it is like Kaparot avonot. Everything is good in middle ground and anger is something we should be extremely away from it. What does it Mean when it HaShem gets angry for a second when in fact HaShem does not have any emotions or Form, it means HaShem uses that time to deliver all the punishment. we are still suffering Kararot Avonot for Golden Calf.

The biggest Miztvah/ purpose of this world is to Sanctify HaShem’s name.Whether Trump is good for israel or not it’s in HaShem’s name and whenever someone becomes leader they remove their free choice and they become a tool for HaShem and they are used either to reward or Punish Am ysirael . If someone Believes that some politician is going to save them then he is doing the worse sin which is aru.

We can show anger without really being angry to correct someone.. We must rebuke people who are doing something wrong and we have some connection to them and even the rebuke has to have some strategy so people do not perceive us as crazy.

We are not supposed to question the chachamim’s wisdom people don’t know the value of Torah. Each Bad Character Trait creates a separation/ veil between you and HaShem. When someone is spiritually sick, the things which are good for him, the Mitzvot are spiritually bitter for him.

Rav Avtalyon said: Sages, be careful with your words if you are not careful with your words all the efforts can go to waste in a second. We can only decide if we have Yirat Shamayim ( fear of Heavens) or not.. HaShem has not put us into this world to fail but he is giving us an opportunity to win.

There are 4 types of people the Shekinah of HaShem does not want to be present around them one of them is People who do Lashon Hara .Serve HaShem as if you r not getting any reward and just out of love. Fake mekubal and babas stay away from them. The more you like money the less likely you are going to get it from HaShem. Avoid using Kabala without proper, instead learn daat Torah, do Mitzvot. we have to be careful of the words we speak.. it can lead to heresy if they are misconstrued. Torah is based on divine brain and and not ones heart

A rabbi who tells it’s allowed to be with ones wife when is she is niddah it’s heresy It’s horrible ethics to eat out in public..and it’s chillul HaShem. One has to be be very careful of what you say or in the end your student’s will become heretics and there is a chance that there will be chillul HaShem

Anything which is going to cause that is going make someone to View HaShem and Torah and Judaism in a wrong way it is chillul HaShem. When we actually fulfill a mitzvah without expecting anything in return but just Sanctifying HaShem’s name it is Kiddush HaShem. Our purpose in Life is to sanctify HaShem’s name that’s it without having any expecting anything in return. Don’t do the mitzvot for Reward.

Hillel said: Be of the disciples of Aaron, love peace and pursue peace, love your fellows and bring them close to the Torah.
Try to to Emulate the Teacher. and this gives us an example for the parents to have good middot Parents need to make sure their behavior is good in front of their kids and the kids will follow their parents behavior, never argue in front of kids

Shidduchim: Don’t Discriminate between Ashkenaz or Sephardi. The whole point of a relationship, Friendship or Marriage is to bring out the best of each other.. The point of relationship is to be better. Rabbis are missing the point of what Hillel said in Mishna of bringing the people close to Torah. Without having a foundation based on fear we are not going to ever connect to HaShem.

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